OPPOSITE WORD

I have come to realize that in real life sense everything in this word is opposite why? do i say so.example a family which is rich full of luxury but there is no love in the family,take another example a family full of poverty but full of love and happiness,this comes to my anttention that when you are young and you admired to be a doctor,enginer or somebody else you wanted  to be in life you grow up in your mind you are sure when you grow up you will  be what you wanted to be but what happen when you grow up is everything turns opposite to what you admired to be if you wanted to be a doctor you find yourself a driver.This is what happen when our first parents messed up on the garden of Eden everything became opposite, first what went opposite is love that is instead of Cain loving is brother Abel even if Abel's offering towards God was pleasing he grew haterade and killed is brother,to us this is what happens to us nowdays we always grew haterade inside our heart and end up doing bad things to others that make us regrate in our way forward life.So to 21century people love to us is cracking away from our heart let try to rebond it just a bit of it and God will have mercy on us and answer our prayers.